How to Take A Selfie
09.16.13
SELIE BUNCH

New York Magazine wrote a fascinating article back in 2007 (2007! VINTAGE!) about our generation’s willingness to expose ourselves online.

“As younger people reveal their private lives on the Internet,” reads the story’s tagline, “the older generation looks on with alarm and misapprehension not seen since the early days of rock and roll. The future belongs to the uninhibited.”

The future belongs to the uninhibited.

That’s pretty powerful. It’s also fairly alarming. If it’s true, then it means that these selfies we take could make or break us.

Now, I consider myself somewhere on the cusp of my generation AT LEAST in regards to digital life. I had a Myspace, I have a Facebook. I’m on Instagram, Twitter, and hi — I work for a website. But I’m also fifteen years older than my cousins who also have Instagram. FIFTEEN YEARS OLDER. They grew up with an inherent understanding of these things, whereas anyone in my age group had to learn them. It pains to call myself a technology immigrant but it’s true. And they’re the natives.

Yes, to them, I am a dinosaur with an iPhone.

But I am also wise. If not because my age compared to theirs demands it, then certainly because I have lived through digital trial and error. I’ve been the bearer of bad news to more than one friend who didn’t realize that her Photoshop was showing in her profile pic. I scrolled through in horror at cleavage shots and duck faces. Even I, Yoda of the self-portrait, have posted some extremely offensive pictures. My first FB pic was a closeup of my face in black and white. Except for my eyes. Those were left blue. I know, I’m sorry you have to know me.

So if NY Mag is right and the future belongs to the uninhibited, then I feel it’s my duty to impart all the wisdom I’ve culled onto my cousins and their friends. And with that, I present The Rules of The Selfie, a guide to taking a self portrait intended for public viewing. (If you’re sending a selfie to a friend then all bets are off.) We’re going to do it anyway, may as well do it right.

The Rules of The Selfie

1. Be clothed.

2. If you choose to take a selfie sans makeup, do not qualify it with the hashtag #nomakeup, or with a caption such as, “LOL no makeup so uglyy.” The fine print of posting this picture reads, “I look really pretty without makeup and want you to know  it.”

3. If you’re going to pretend that this is not a selfie, just make sure there’s no evidence. You’ve seen all the people taking failed sleeping selfies, right?

4. Actually let’s avoid what shall now be called “The Sleeper” altogether, shall we?

5. Emo had a really serious moment back in the heyday of Myspace. But today is not this day. Chin up, angel face. Take your selfies with a smile.

6. OK FINE. If you’re feeling a little downward spiral-y, you’ve already busted out the old Brand New and need a pic to prove it, just make sure your caption below is really on point. Example: “Soco amaretto SELFIE.” #nailedit

7. Selfies with friends may not technically be considered a selfie, but in our definition, if you’re holding your own camera, it’s a selfie. Throwing friends in the equation is an easy way to share how good you look this day without blatant bragging.

8. ADD AN ANIMAL! Any time I’m having a good hair day I find an animal and take a selfie. Then I make the caption something like, “Omg Butters is soooo cute! #frenchie #woof.” Furry mammals are Insta-bait. You’re basically blind-siding everyone.

9. We don’t like to tell you what not to do because we aren’t your mama, so if you must do a kissy face (I get it, makes the cheek bones look rull good)…then as per rule #5, make sure your caption kills it. I literally have no clue what a good caption would be for this so leave your suggestions in the comments.

10. The most important rule to taking a selfie is to OWN IT. Your face, your phone, your life. If others don’t like it there’s a gummy little button where they can click to unfollow.

Now what about you guys? What are your rules? What should one always do, what should one never do?  What about selfie pet peeves? And how often is it okay to post? The more we know, the faster we grow.

Ok, time to take a selfie, bye!